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Delayed Ejaculation

Possible Buried Feelings
Controlwithholdingdifficulty surrenderingguardednessself-monitoringpressuredistance

Possible Buried Beliefs

  • Letting go isn't safe.
  • I have to stay in charge.
  • If I surrender, I lose myself.

Healing Notes

Emotion-Link offers these as possible associations to explore, not causes or diagnoses. Possible purpose or secondary gain: holding back may protect against vulnerability, merging, or losing control with another person.

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