Healing Avoidance
Possible Buried Feelings
Paingriefshamefearresistance
Possible Buried Beliefs
- “If I heal, I will have to feel what I have spent my life avoiding.”
- “If I let go of the wound, I will not know who I am.”
- “My pain protects me.”
- “If I heal, others get away with what they did.”
- “Staying wounded keeps me safe.”
- “I am afraid to become someone new.”
- “My wound gives me an identity.”
Healing Notes
Fear softens when the body learns, slowly, that this present moment is safe. Breath, ground, and small acts of trust each loosen its grip.
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