Sexual Validation / Need to Be Desired
Possible Buried Feelings
Unwantedinvisibleinferiorrejectedempty
Possible Buried Beliefs
- “If I am desired, I matter.”
- “If I am not wanted sexually, I am worthless.”
- “I need attention to feel alive.”
- “My value depends on being chosen.”
- “If one person wants me, it is not enough.”
- “I must perform to be loved.”
Healing Notes
It eases as you build relationships where being yourself is what's wanted — not what's tolerated.
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