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People Pleasing

Possible Buried Feelings
Rejection avoidanceapproval seekingweak boundariesfearguiltresentmentself-erasure

Possible Buried Beliefs

  • “My needs come last.”
  • “If I disappoint them, I lose them.”
  • “Being liked keeps me safe.”

Healing Notes

Emotion Link offers these as possible associations to explore, not causes or diagnoses. Possible purpose or secondary gain: pleasing may secure approval and avoid conflict, rejection, or the discomfort of having needs.

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