Posting Relationship Content
Positive connections
Love, appreciation, connection
Only if personally recognizable
Emotional connections during this preference
Validation seeking, jealousy, relationship insecurity, need to prove happiness
Go Deeper
Are you sharing affection, or trying to reassure yourself or others that the relationship is secure?
Possible buried beliefs
“If we don't look happy, something is wrong.”
Hard Places
Relationship doubts or fear of abandonment if present.
More questions
If you could not turn to this activity, what feeling or responsibility might come into view?
Does the experience help you understand something painful, or repeatedly strengthen resentment?
Does not knowing or not being in control remain uncomfortable after the activity ends?
Does comparing yourself with someone involved in this preference change your sense of worth?