Buried Feeling
Unsafe, violated, exposed, ashamed, powerless, afraid of being touched.
Buried Belief
- “My body needs a shield.”
- “If I am less attractive, I am safer.”
- “If I lose weight, people may want me.”
- “If people want me, they may harm me.”
- “If I become visible, I am unsafe.”
- “My weight keeps people away.”
Hard-to-Go Place
Feeling the original fear, violation, exposure, or lack of protection without using weight as the only shield. Weight may provide a barrier, distance, invisibility, reduced sexual attention, avoidance of touch, protection from desire, or a way to feel less exposed.
Next Step
Ask, "What does my body believe it is protecting me from?"