Sex Issues

Physical Intimacy Block

Buried Feeling

Guarded, afraid, disgusted, resentful, unsafe, body-shamed.

Buried Belief
  • “My body is unsafe.”
  • “Touch always costs something.”
  • “If I let someone close, I lose control.”
  • “My body is not acceptable.”
  • “I cannot relax into affection.”
  • “Being touched makes me vulnerable.”
Hard-to-Go Place

Receiving safe non-sexual touch, warmth, affection, and closeness without fear or resentment.

Next Step

Ask, "What does safe touch bring up in me?"

You found a possible Link

Identifying the buried feeling or belief is the first step. The next step is learning how to work with what you’ve found.

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