Groin Pain

Buried Feelings

FearHolding onto partnerSexual guiltDirty sexuallyNot good enough
Possible Buried Beliefs
  • “I'm not safe.”
  • “Something bad is about to happen.”
  • “If I relax, I'll be hurt.”
  • “I am the problem.”
  • “If they really knew me, they'd leave.”
  • “I don't deserve to take up space.”
  • “It's my fault.”
  • “I owe them.”
  • “I should have done more.”
  • “I have to earn my worth.”
  • “If I stop achieving, I disappear.”
Healing Notes

Fear softens when the body learns, slowly, that this present moment is safe. Breath, ground, and small acts of trust each loosen its grip.

Shame loosens in the presence of being seen and not rejected. Naming it out loud is often the first crack of light.

Guilt resolves through honest repair where possible — and self-forgiveness where it isn't.

It softens with experiences of being valued for who you are, not what you produce.

Hard to Go Places

The places the body has been avoiding — the feelings, truths, or moments it has been organised to keep at a distance.

  • Fear

    Letting the body feel safe without needing to control what comes next.

  • Shame

    Allowing yourself to be witnessed in the parts you've spent a lifetime hiding.

  • Guilt

    Distinguishing what was actually yours to carry from what you were handed.

  • Not Enough

    Resting without immediately producing something to justify it.

The Next Step

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The next step is not learning more — it is working directly with those feelings.

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