Also known as: Narcissism · Self-centred patterns · Grandiosity
- “I have to be admired.”
- “My worth is fragile.”
- “Ordinary is annihilation.”
Emotion Link offers these as possible associations to explore, not causes or diagnoses. Possible purpose or secondary gain: admiration may stabilize a fragile self and hold deep shame out of awareness.
Fear softens when the body learns, slowly, that this present moment is safe. Breath, ground, and small acts of trust each loosen its grip.
Shame loosens in the presence of being seen and not rejected. Naming it out loud is often the first crack of light.
Your emotional pattern is becoming clearer.
The next step is not learning more — it is working directly with those feelings.
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Identifying the buried feeling or belief is the first step. The next step is learning how to work with what you’ve found.
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